First, bring protection. It may not be possible for you to be born with child, but you will have the chance to catch STDs. Besides, it is also part of your responsibility if the girl you hooked up with have unplanned pregnancy. Therefore, always wear condom and there is nothing worth saying about it. Use protection is absolutely non-negotiable. The consequence of catching STDs is pretty clear to you I believe. Unfortunately, we are still lack of effective medical treatment to deal with sexually transmitted illness. No matter you are hooking up with a stranger or a friend, always bring condom with you. Even if she tells you that she takes pill every day, still, wear condom.
Make sure your partner is comfortable during the whole process. You may meet each other on some tinder hookup app for hookups and you may meet in some bars or night clubs. Because you have never been with each other before, it is necessary to have a pre-talk about it. Discuss your preferences and boundaries that may make you feel uncomfortable. If you want to have a good time in this, you should ignore this step. Take some time to do pre-discussion is better than regretting after it, right? One night trans hookup might be the perfect chance to realize your sexual fantasy, which is also what many people are trying to do during hooking up with their partner. However, everyone has their own limits and boundaries, so do you. If you want your boundaries to be respected, you should also respect theirs first. Otherwise, neither of you are going to enjoy it.
What happens after?
After the deed is done, you should invite your partner to stay for a while or a night unless she suggests otherwise. In return, if you are coming to her place, it is not so respectful if you leave right after you are done. It would make her feel like she is treated like a sexual object or a prostitute. After things are finished, you can either go grab to coffee or you can sleep together until the next morning when the sun rises. Even if you have had an amazing hookup, leaving her right after can ruin the whole experience.
Don’t send her mixed signals if you are not going to have a relationship with her. Many guys have actually made mistakes in this. When they leave, it is like a habit that they would say “I’ll call you later”. If you are not going to call her, save that sentence, because people would really take it seriously and wait for your call. When there is none, feelings may get hurt. Even after you separate, if you are not going to date her, don’t send her mixed signals such as vague text about how much you miss her when all you want is to get her in bed with you again.
It is okay to keep your hookup relationship, but make it clear about what you are. Sometimes, you may like your sexual experience with her and you may also want to continue maintaining a sexual relationship. That is okay if you tell her honestly how you think, but it won’t be okay if you pretend to be interested in developing a relationship with her, but all your purposes are only sexual. These days, many girls actually appreciate hookups over relationship. If you ask, they might agree with you. Just don’t lie about it.
At last, if you think you are not going to meet each other and you want to end this relationship, do it nicely and respectfully, even if you just hooked up with each other for one night.